If a man knoweth not (ε τις ουκ οιδεν). Condition of first class, assumed as true.
How to rule (προστηνα). Second aorist active infinitive of same verb προιστημ and with οιδεν means "know how to rule," not "know that he rules."
How (πως). Rhetorical question expecting negative answer.
Shall he take care of (επιμελησετα). Future middle of επιμελεομα, old compound (επ, direction of care towards) verb, in LXX, in N.T. only here and Luke 10:34.
The church of God (εκκλησιας θεου). Anarthrous as in
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